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There are a couple of things women should know about me...well, not only women, but people in general. One, I get bored VERY easily. Its not like I didn't know this or I just found out. I mean if you leave things all up to me, you have to be willing to go along with what I have planned. Don't like what I have planned, well make a suggestion, I'm open for anything. Don't put our date night all on me cause that's just telling me one thing...that I have to pay for everything. Like I don't mind sometimes, we can go half too...ever heard of that one. Another thing is this. If you're interested in me, let me know, don't play games. I can call, text, smoke signal you all day and every day. You not reaching out to me, like sending a text or something every so often, makes me feel like it's a one way street. I'm not the one to chase after you. I don't 'disappear' as I have been told that I sometimes do. You have ALL forms of reaching me, conta...

This just hit me..like hit me full right in the face. I'm so use to doing things by myself..like going out, that I don't know what it feels like to take a woman out. Like I'm so use to doing things by myself, that now, I'm worried about on if my date is going to like where I take her. But then again, fuck it. I told her to tell me what she wanted to do and all she said was that she didn't want to be cold. Then in the next breath, she said she might as well go to this party her friend wants her to go to. I told her to go to that party. Hell, you aren't saying something I haven't heard before. She also said she was disappointed. See, I'm trying really hard to change my ways...change my ways when it comes to women. But its hard, requires too much thinking on my part. I rather stick to the way I do things. In the past, yes I have to admit, I am focus on one thing. That thing is to get into bed with them, women. It seemed like there was no problem because t...

This young lady, whom I use to have a 'relationship' with, who STILL thinks in her own mind we still are in a relationship..well she called me and told me she needed some movies, TV shows...ANYTHING to watch. Times are hard for her right now. No cable, it was turned off and she is just now caught up with her 3 months due in back rent. I guess bills kind of...its a turn off when it comes to sex. Since she was tardy in the sex aspect of our relationship, I let her know...no bueno. I went to her house and dropped off a 32 GB flash drive of movies & TV shows for her. While I was there I get an email from another female friend asking what am I doing right now. This friend lives about 4 hours from me by Greyhound bus...Albany, NY. In a email, I told her that I wasn't doing anything. She replied and ask did I want to spend an evening with her. I asked for her number. I never met this person in person, only thru emails, so I called her. I told her what the deal was, I will be...

I believe that every one in this country has the right to work and earn a living. I don't care how you came to this country, but if you want to work, then you should be able. What I have a problem with is those that...lets say, want to do things their own way. Listen, I have been in my foeld for a very long time. I know a lot about what I do. What I do isn't that hard to learn AND do. What the hardest part is ? Its working with others. See, some people figure that since they have the time in, that they can basically do whatever they feel like doing. In most cases, and fields this is true...all except mine's. In my field we are suppose to work as a team, with each member having his or her own function to accomplish. This doesn't always work out that way. Its like that in any field also, but what most people do is..they overlook others short comings. But not me. If you work any type of Line Work, meaning that your job function depends on other accomplishing their job ...

...like that's suppose to be a good thing, right? I don't think so. Towards the end of last year, I, along with countless others saw what the next four years would kind of be. First, it feels strange to be off on weekends, even stranger to have a 3 day weekend. Probably would've had a great old time if it wasn't for the flu, thing bug that traveling around New York City. It would've been nice if all the sick people stayed home too. But the way things are, who can afford to stay home. Sooooo, I caught whtever the fuck it was thats out there. Tightness of the chest, coughing, stuffy nose AND sneezing. Feel a lot better thanks to Buckley's...some nasty ass shit too. Since I got sick on a Friday, I turned my cell phone off for the whole weekend. I turned it on on Sunday. Try that sometimes, turn your phone off for the weekend. Either people will go crazy trying to contact you and wondering if you're okay, or they just don't give a fuck about you. Turns o...

I guess living in any other place in the world would be the same...right? I don't think so. So much happens and can happen in THIS great city. People who visit mostly visit in Manhattan, spend their money there also. But there are other parts of this city. Other parts that will stretch your dollar to its max, but people don't know this. Got a call at 1am, heard my cell ring...hell, straight to voice mail I let it go. Its one of the guys I work with. Either they aren't going in today, or something happened in the kitchen. Something happened. Cleaners pulled the fire extinguishers by accident, big clean up, I go in later, 8am. So its 8am to 1pm and its FRIDAY !! I haven't heard from Hilda since last winter, but I text her Happy New Year earlier this month. Doing that opened a can of worms...but these worms are good. Nice text conversation. She is still single, but asked me was I ready for a relationship. Hell, she lives 3 and a half hours from me. I was willing to rel...

Last night, some woman click yes on me, she was interested in knowing me. Again, one of those web sites that connect people with people. I try, and I try VERY hard to respond with an open mind, but... Sometimes I ask myself what are these people thinking. True, I may not be that Prince Charming who rides a white horse. I'm that person who comfortable in the clothes that I wear, and I like to walk a lot. With that I'm saying this. WHAT THE FLYING FUCK !! I understand that we all can't think and act the same, we are all different. But you would figure, a person with some years under their belt, lets say in their 50's, just ought to know the basic rules of living; basic rules of engagement. Like I said, she reached out to me. First off, whats with the cryptic names? That isn't your given name, well first name, what is it that you're hiding? My first question was, has she met any of her friends online in person. She answered yes, but things didn't go well. Whe...

I can do what ever the fuck I please. This, along with saying what ever the fuck I want to say. Its a free country right? So, when I say that....that you're a dumb fuck, take its for what its worth. ObamaCare. Its starting already I see. Employers cutting back on employees hours, making them that are full timers, part timers. It doesn't matter if you're in a Union either. Cause all the shit that you HAVE been getting away with in the past, they are watching you now and will give you a choice. Either get fired or accept a part time position. Nothing will change in your job duties though, other than have less time to do what you do in 8 or 9 hours, now you have to do it in 6 hours tops. If not, they will fire you and hire some one for less pay who WANTS to do the job. Oh, its just beginning. I don't understand when a person tells me that they are working to pay off or to pay their bills. I say this, this shit didn't just sneak up on you out of no where. There were s...

In past post I stated that I can understand certain issues whwn it comes to the male/female relationship. I have my own take on things, again those are my opinons. There's one thing I do know though, you have to be true to The Game. ...cause that's what it real is, a game. A game that can be played many different ways. The object of this game is to play it to your advantage. Sometimes, its not taking advantage, its working out some agreement. Like... When I was discharged from The Army, I treated myself. I went to the back pages of The Village Voice and made a call to an escort agency. I was 22 years old, told the person on the phone just what I wanted. They told me it would best that I got a hotel room in Manhattan, and when I did call back to the number she gave me. I got a nice room and made the call. At the assigned time, I received a phone call, saying she was on her way up. Five hundred dollars for 4 hours. Nothing crazy, but she being a Pro, knew what to do and how to ...