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...ya know what, I could even care less. Well, I do care. It's just been I've been kind of busy. Nothing to say right about now, but I will have something to say once I check out what it happening after this weekend,. More or less it will be Monday. Until then..

..I have a little something to get off my chest. I've been meaning to get back here, you just don't know how many days I have tried. But you know what? I told myself, why does it matter, and will it matter. Then, in the next breath, I said it DOES matter. First things first. Online dating..yada, yada, yada..right? Well, you know me. It's like that song...'looking for love in all the wrong places'. Yep, I keep dipping my toe into the pool. Still testing the waters. I don't know if I mention this woman I am currently seeing..if you can call it that. She lives in NC, but travels back and forth to an area around where I live at. When she is in town, her town she is visiting, I go there and stay the night with her. I have to book a hotel room, pay for meals...think of something to do other than just taking her to bed. She has no problem with the latter point. In fact, she told me she doesn't have to be doing anything when she comes and visit, just staying in ...

Had an eye surgery today. Left eye in the corner. Been there so long...since when(?)... I can't even to begin to figure it out. Gonna talk about THIS morning cause it's the evening now, so when you read this...cause I get confused sometimes too, having to play 'Mr Time Zone & CLOCK Wizard. As I stated before, right now, all I acknowledge is Day & MFin' Night..simple, much easier. Day time stuff is during the day time, and night time..well you get what I'm saying. This posting should be great on so many reasons, again..I just can't make you or anyone see me, so I gonna rite it..no TYPO Bitch!! Hospitals, not clinics, those I can deal with. But hospitals...Being a former State Worker, I KNOW. In hospitals I know may way a round by myself, just walk fast and read far ahead, other words stay focus. That I did. Asked questions to get to certain elevators, I'm where I'm suppose to be at least, 25 minutes early. Male & female in reception cubicle,...

I really thought, and now I believe, that time passes you by in a blink of an eye. I asked myself, where had this Summer went.I did none of the things I'm use to doing when I lived in The Bronx. Things like bike riding, going to free outdoor concerts. One thing stayed the same though, I worked. Sure, I got the chance to meet new people, mostly females. But that is just the way I am. I also got the chance to visit other large cities North of New York City, like Syracuse. I spent the better part of the day in a Mall with a woman I met online and had a very nice time. We both didn't want the fun day to end, so we...well, you know. But what made her exciting and fun to be around was that she is exactly like me...in a way. Difference between her and I mainly is that she is retired and has a lot of free time on her hands which she spends trying to get reaquainted with her 2 grown daughters, which left no time for us to be really together. I was disappointed in that sense, but haven...

...'that people, and even you and me, are full of shit. So what you do is wipe your ass, and flush that tissue down the toilet.' I understood what she meant, and I tried that, but being the person I am...I can't flush. For example... This woman whom I am paying rent to living in her house. Regardless of what she wants from me, I am a tenant, and I don't want to be involved with her. Though, I have thought about her being 'there' anytime I want 'some', no, I don't want to cross that line. Last night she said she wants to take me to breakfast, okay. This morning, she asked me did I feed her fish. Do I ever feed your fish? I ask myself that question, out loud I said 'nope'. She exhaled deeply and told me that isn't what I asked you. She then said, 'what I said will you PLEASE feed the fish'. One, they are your fish and your responsibility. Two, it's not like that between you and me. And three. I see how when people...White ...

I have a Breakfast Buddy, she is 42 years old, mother of 5..nice looking pleasing on the eyes. Breakfast si twice a week with her on me. I don't ask her to pay because she is on P.A. and I know times can be hard. But she just fucked my head all up. Okay, she knows the place where she wants to eat, but doesn't want to get out of the car. We been there before to sit down and eat. She wants grits, but this place doesn't serve grits..she starts yelling at me. Says it's not at me...mind you we are in her car, says it;s about the place. She REALLY loses it in the car. So, I say, forget it, breakfast is over. She says but she is really hungry. I told her, she can eat mayo sandwiches for breakfast for all I car, I get out the car and start walking...all the way home. All the while she is following me asking, begging me to get in the car. I ignore her all the way home. She goes home and calls me, saying her computer isn't working. Told her that her free days are over, it...

After a while, no matter what the color of your skin is...enough is enough. This madness that is happening in Missouri, yes because it IS really madness. It just has to stop. It has to stop before it REALLY gets out of hand. People are just now noticing how our police have been gearing up, in uniform, as if they are invading a small country. But I'm thinking outside the box... It all starts with our Armed Forces, mainly The Army & The Marines. I had served, and I tell you there is nothing else like EVER in the world. Wait, I think going to war, fighting, a fire fight...well, that is the ultimate feeling. Okay, now take that feeling, put it in a bottle. Serve your time, and then be told that you're no longer needed in The Armed Forces. You are then given a Military Honorable Discharge. If, upon being discharge you just happen to take the Police Officer test in ANY state, most likely you will enter Law Enforcement. NOW...OPEN that BOTTLE. You say, 'how, what?' You...

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...it's like my mind just opens up to the first shower of the day and all these thoughts come to me. I met this nice young woman, age 42 online. We decided to meet after 2 days over breakfast. She told me that she was starting a new job in a couple of days. She owns a car, but with money so short, or none at all, she needs $10 a day to travel to and from her job. So I gave her enough for 3 days of travel. We talked over breakfast. She was seeing this guy who owns his own business, a telephone store. He is single and taking care of his teen age children, 2 of them. She is upset because he has no time for her, but... She slept with him on the first day of meeting him. Over breakfast she told me in passing that she might be pregnant. I heard that come out of her mouth, but I didn't really pay it no mind. But I did say, ' so, you slept with him using no protection?', I KNOW I did say this to her. I took it for that she took a risk, and that..hey who hasn't had unprote...

...so, why do some people 'assume' that you will go along with something, that isn't voted on as a whole. Listen, I am a dedicated 'Foodie', meaning..working with food is my WORLD. I believe in putting out a great product, making deadlines happen and avoiding them also from having to have one. As long as I been in this business, I can see projected problems that CAN arise. My best tools in the kitchen are my ears. My knife skills are honed, and are improving with every single day I work in a kitchen. I am always learning, there isn't anything from anyone that I WON'T take advice from...so... ...'bot-for-nothing', going to a Lil Wayne concert isn't a priority for me. Though I would like to go...but I be damned if I'm going to give up my day off and bust my ass so that my teammates can take off on a Friday and go to a concert. Our setup now, in THIS kitchen is new. We are STILL ironing out the kinks, trying to get shit right. Lil 'Payne...

...starts off just great. I am awaken by some woman screaming my name, my housemate. She stuck her head into my room and notice I was sleeping with an erection. Apparently, she is turned on by this. I wake up like the house is on fire, reading to throw on some pants and dash. She says she was waking me up to tell me she is leaving for work. Since when, after 3 months of me being in your house, that you have to need to tell me while I am sleep, that you are leaving for work. I told her, sleepily, that we have to have a talk tomorrow morning, cause that will be the next time I will see her. So, I have a breakfast date this coming Sunday at Denny's. I am so amazed at this place. The amount of food they give you for such a low price. But what really amazes me is that no Black people go there to eat. Some work in the kitchen and do the cooking, but none actually, as far as I have seen, have sat down and eat there since I've been in there to eat while I was there. Well, she is 25...

...all I can say is this...it has been rough. There is a proper way to handle your business and I'm not the one to TELL some one how to do that. But I will try and give advice. Most people won't and don't take advice, I know I don't at some times. When things get to 'Cluster Fuck Mode', it's all hands on deck and some one has to take the blame. I learned how to take the blame...even though most times it isn't my fault. Taking blame, what, you can't kill me for it, so when no one claims it, I do. The reason? Because I am capable of making mistakes, and just maybe it WAS my mistake. Look at it this way... If you see some one doing something wrong, and if you dont step in to correct it...When everyone gets their ass chewed all together, step up and say, hey, it was my fault because in theory, it was. Because you didn't attempt to stop or correct what was doing wrong. I like how I can throw an idea out there, and some one takes the credit for it....

My co worker mentioned to me something that he saw on the news, I think it was what he heard on the radio on his drive in to work. A woman, a Black young woman, who was babysitting was thrown off the public bus by the bus driver in the pouring rain. This morning, I heard it mentioned on the radio, so I did some checking up on it. The bus company is that of Rochester, NY, RTS. The woman had 2 small children, I think they said the kids were 1 year olds. The children and a stroller, she was having a hard time managing. Another rider got off the bus they were both on. He got off to HELP her on to another bus, the bus she was thrown off of. I don't know what was the problem. The woman offered to pay, and she did, for the man who helped her on the this bus. The fact that the bus wasn't the man's bus, but he was there to help her. The bus driver got angry, for what, I don't know and told her she had to leave. When she said she wasn't, because she said she didn't do a...

I am not a Father, though I wish I was. Guess it wasn't in the cards. But, I did and...lets say, I've have had the practice in. Ha Ha. This morning I read an article in the newspaper. The write told of how and the local jail, which is a 10 storied building, how this guy was yelling from the window at his girlfriend/wife and his kids, 3 of them... Telling them to listen to their mother and to 'be' nice. A lot went through my head on those couple of paragraphs. One, him yelling AT his kids FROM a jail cell, IN JAIL. If something isn't wrong with that picture. AND him telling his kids to listen to their mother and to BE nice. If..that just isn't right. This guy has no one else to blame, but himself really. I told the writer in an email how I felt. I know my thoughts, put into words had me all over the place too. All I checked was my spelling, and thank God for Spell Check also. I don't care what society says about single parent mother's on Father...

On the 25th of June, I'm taking a trip back to The Bronx, and... ...my main reason for going is that on that night, at 7 pm, there is a Hip Hop celebration in Crotona Park in The Bronx. All the old school Rappers and people in the music business are suppose to show up. I hear a concert is going to happen. We will see. Three days later, I will have had 3 months away from where I was born and raised. Bus leaves at 8 am and gets there at 3 pm. Returning, leaves at 11:30 pm and gets here at 4:55 am. 5 hours and 5 minutes later, I will have to be at work. SWEET!! No biggie, 6 hour bus ride and I will be sleeping all the way. What am I going to do in NYC? I planned as much as I can to the last detail, but knowing me and NYC, things can change. I was going to get a motel room, but I know too many people other than family, that can and will put me up. But being away, even this short amount of time, people change. And sometimes it's for the worse. I'm going to stay with my ex/...

Okay where do I start. I will start with Slenderman. I heard about what those 2 12 year olds did, and that's bad.Here is my say so on the matter.... They believed what they believed because they read it on the internet, or in some book. Most likely, it was the internet. Me, being an adult, there are things in this world that I can't to begin to explain. But what I heard a radio host explain, I feel the same way. A guy called in and said that there was not such thing as Slenderman, that it doesn't exists. Radio host ask him does he believe in God? Yes the call said. Radio guy asked, so have you seen him? Caller says no. Radio guy says, so how do you know he is real? So, I ask this woman the same thing, but she said she has seen God..and Angels  and Demons. I think she was trying to seem like she was very Spiritual. She goes to Church all day on Sunday, Bible Study on Wednesday and Women's meeting on Saturday. So I say to her, so do you believe in Santa Claus and Th...

One of my Army buddies posted on his Facebook timeline a picture of a Camero, he said he wanted one. I reminded him what he did to my car MANY years ago back at Idar-Oberstien, West Germany. Ron had married a Germany woman, but not just any German woman mind you. She was and still is beautiful. Back then, 1977..oh my God. She was the model of all things beautiful. I think he knew that too. I was and still am happy for the two of them when they got together and married. Although they aren't married any longer, in my heart, they still are. Ron, asked could he borrow my car to go home. He didn't live on post in The Housing Area, he lived down in the town. Since I had a car, a car I traded a guy, my stereo for his car...hey, it was a fair trade... I wasn't going any where, so I let Ron borrow it. He said he will return it in the morning. Morning came and I asked for my keys. He told me it went dead downtown, and he just left it there. One..my FIRST car ever, in a Country, E...

...and went to this restaurant/club where all the good looking people seemed like where they would hang out. The only reason why I went was because after driving by a couple of times, I have to admit, I like the way the people looked and dressed. It was after work corporate attire, nice dresses, and business suits. People where standing around talking, but most were sitting at tables outside ad inside. I was dressed nicely also. Non discript black sneakers, white t-shirt and a denim rolled up sleeve shirt, which was a button down. I felt comfortable, ready to mingle and have a good time. BOY did I have a good time. Being this was my first time at this place AND this place has only been open for a couple of months... I guess it was still trying to find it's 'group' of people, it's 'regulars', or the 'look' they were going for. As soon as I stepped in the door I was approached by a VERY good looking woman. She could have stepped out of a model magazine...

...is my Monday. On Mondays, which I love, I can't wait until I get to work. It's so that I can start the work week. But since I'm off on Mondays...Tuesdays are my favorite day of the week. Until... We get our food order on Tuesdays. We can't really start doing any prep work or cooking until the truck makes it's delivery. Being that Monday was a holiday, I KNEW something was going to happen, and it did. Started with the driver texting one of the other cooks that the truck would be late, usually comes around 11 am, we start work at 10 am. Said the truck would be there at 11:45 am, that's REALLY late. 680 pounds, 15 cases of chicken breast have to be cleaned, cooked and sliced on Tuesday to assemble on Wednesday. Projected time we leave...9 pm. Truck didn't come until 1:45 pm  o.O So, we looking at a time of leaving...around 10 10:30 pm, until it was suggested.. We just clean the chicken and be at work at 6am. 2 people come in at that time with me being on...

There are some people in this world that ONLY know how things are 'suppose' to go because they have ONLY read what they have read in BOOKS. Until you actually come face to face with the situation...LISTEN to the other voices in the room...then respond or act. If a person brings you a product and that product seems to work for you, tell me why would you change the product TO something LESS. This happened 2 times and each time, I didn't like the product. I overheard the 'spiel', the 'game'...'the talk' and he fell for it. Proof came after the process and it came to me. I didn't like it across the board. Not only that, that isn't what you advertised either, that isn't or wasn't the same look that get the people to order it.  Though The Barker said whatever he had to say to talk you into buying it, I knew the 2nd time he came in that something was up. Hey, if I don't like it, they is a problem. Then again, it isn't my checkbook....

I know in my past post I sort of...well I myself can't see the idea of me even going to college. My schooling was through Life Experiences. I wanted to get out there and see what life and where life would take me. I have had some weird & strange ass experiences. Those experiences come into my head every now and then and I am amazed that one, what the hell was I thinking. And 2, WTF, I'm still alive. I've had the pleasure to work with this guy for a short month and a half. He graduated from college with a degree in Accounting. Believe me, I questioned our Educational Institution when I looked at this guy and he told me what his degree was for and in. But then I looked at the bigger picture. For one, he is White. And yes, it does make a BIG difference today. I thought about this. 5 years from now he will be a mid level corporate accountant some where. Some one will be paying this guy to keep or audit their books, so he has to know his stuff. I say this because right n...

...I'm having a hard time getting them to work all at the same time...well in order that is. But, I think I figured out  solution. First I have to learn how all three of them work and then. I broke it sown. The brain is the car. The mind is the gas and the mouth is the destination. You have to hold the gas in something and that would be a car cause it has the gas tank. Gas in the car, gets you to your destination. Simple, right? Well sometimes not for me. I might be going crazy, or I'm on the verge of being the smartest person in life. but my mouth doesn't quite well knows how to work with my mind. It's like getting into a car and wanting to be in 3 different places, or go to three different places all at the same time. What happens is that when you come to that junction that branches off into your 3 destinations you would like to go to, I just seem to keep going straight. Heading off to someplace else, which isn't a bad or good thing, its just a destination. ...

I don't know if some people read the newspapers or even watch the news on TV. But there was something in both about this elderly woman who lived in her house. For 6 years, I think it was that long, she was dead before anyone realized that she was dead in her own home. Mail kept being delivered, Rent or mortgage was being paid, until her funds ran out at the bank. But by then it was too late. No one, not even her family, her own sister checked up on her. Neighbors, yep she had them, but they paid her no attention. Which brings me to this... Some people live in their own private world once they get behind their closed doors of their homes or apartments. You may see them in passing, and ONLY say the common greeting, Good Morning, etc. Other than that, we don't even matter to them. I rent a room out where I live. I can sleep through anything and anywhere, it doesn't bother me. What bothers me is the woman who I rent the room from, has NO consideration for her neighbors on e...

...have this uncontrollable feeling to just go out and buy electronics. Fired up the Chromebook and headed to Bestbuy.com. I know, right? Who shops at Bestbuy nowadays, I do!! Let me explain.  Since Bestbuy, (BB) , is actually a store, which has way too many employees working at any given time on the floor. It's always a good feeling walking in and see just what they have on display. But I notice something...and this is what cause me to spend 6 hours at this one store yesterday. I went online to look for a Boombox that played cd, cd/rw's and cd/rw's mp3's. CD's, right? Who still uses them..me. And again mind you. Also, I needed cd/rw's too. Funny, when I ordered it, both items were available NOT in the SAME stores. A marketing ploy. Got an email that both items were ready to be picked up at their seperate stores. First store, 5 miles away. Me, with no car, but with a Smartphone in hand, tapped my app, Lyft. It's an app that I donated $25 to and I get 2 w...

I am presently 8 hours from New York City, The Bronx, NY I moved here because I wanted to, I wanted to do something and be some where different. So, WHY did I think PEOPLE would or will change? No, not the people here cause I don't know of that many. But I'm talking about the ones, the friends that I left in NYC. Okay, I asked this one woman who lives in The Bronx, but works for a certain college, to get me a baseball cap from there. She has been there for over 28 years, and I'm sure she cold find some beat up old one laying around somewhere. Not even that, I told her to get one, and I would pay for it when she has it. ,,,this was 3 FUCKING YEARS AGO!! No shit. 3 weeks ago she told me I have that cap you wanted. I text her my address. You know what she said? Oh I don't know if I am going by the Post Office. I did the next thing better. I got the largest bubble pack and place inside with the appropriate postage, another bubble pack with my return address on it. Simple ...

...and at times, if you're a female, you would want to kill me. No for real, she would want to. ...see, cause all a female has to do is ask the man she is attracted to a couple of questions. The VERY first question should be, 'what is it that you want?' Now ladies, when you ask this question, try not to fly off the fuckin' hook when we answer, cause you did ask, right? Pay close attention to our answers. You shouldn't be judging on whether, you can 'get' what you want from this guy, or our answer, you should be seeing is it along the same vein as for what you're looking for in a man being your man. Cause face it, you're never gonna find that perfect man, he does NOT exist!! Another issue... If the man you do have now, like he isn't doing, saying or even being the man you 'thought' he would be or can be... And, you decide to like break things off with him, does that mean that your female friends, are off limits to him? What's even ...

I've been waiting for the right chance and time to hit the night life here. I didn't know where I wanted to go, nor what I wanted to do. All I did know was that I wanted to be in a place where there was good music playing and good people enjoying it. I took into account of the assholes, the drunk asshole that could be present. I'm not mentioning names of these places...because, I just won't. First, I don't drink, not even sociably. I will sip a beer for like 5 hours if I have to. Only to wet my throat. I'm not on 'the hunt', being like that brings a Saturday Night Live skit to mind, so no, I'm not like that either. But I do seek woman who having a good time and are NOT drunk. First place I walked into, I was led by the hand to their table. When I walked into this place I looked for the bar, somewhat crowded, but not too. Then I looked for the bathroom and the Fire Exits. Fire Exits, I ALWAYS seek those out, find them and lead those that are drunk t...

I woke up last night as I do almost every night to go to the bathroom. But, it was what I was dreaming..before I woke up. It started with me walking towards my mothers bedroom. In her bedroom, was her and my father. They were both sitting on cushions, in robes. Their hair was a blondish color, To the left of them, laying on the bed and part way under the covers...were them also. I looked back at my mother and she gave me that smile she has. She stood up and opened her arms to me. I stepped into a warm embraced. Although no words were spoken, it was like we were talking. I then said out loud, 'Mom, it's time for me to go'. I looked down at my father, and like him as in real life, he spoke no words...he was always the quiet one. I stepped out of the bedroom and started walking down the hall towards the living room. I notice on the floor, my mother's cat, Vee, shot right by me. She is a crazy car and always had the habit of just doing that. She ran past me into the livin...

...I met her yesterday for an expensive ass cup of coffee. I was impressed. ...and I told her so. How can she not be..have a man, boyfriend, even a husband. Nothing wrong with her after our 2 hour conversation. In fact, she invited me back to her place, but I had to turn her down. Tuesday's are really busy at work, and I can't be off my mark. Quite a bit of knife work going on. But Wednesday I am to meet her at her place, she is picking me up from work.

I make up my own mind and I deal with whatever that follows. Some women aren't just right. I mean, they get what their hand calls for. I listen to everything that I'm told. Most of the times if shit don't apply to me, I pay it no mind, but I still listen. Talk this one woman I know here. I told her, that I would move into her home inder one condition. That I am a 'roommate', who if you want to, we could have sex. Told her, I find her attractive and I could see myself having sex with her. But I am not your man, and if I feel that you're treating me as such, I will speak up about it. Last week she told me her 29 year old daughter had her electricity turned off, didn't pay the bill. So, yesterday from no where, she approaches me and tells me that her electricity bill went up to $200 more than it normally is, this is because I am here. I told her that I will give her an extra $50 a week and left it at that. Straight off I felt she was lying. She must have for...

I'm a true believer that if you talk things out with others, no matter what it is, you will always find a solution. I know some people go with the...well, they just don't like putting their business out there. True, some things you want to keep to yourself. But I think that there isn't nothing on the earth that isn't too big of a problem to share with at least ONE person. Let me correct that, one breathing, alive person. You already, for some, give your worries to God. But a human being, I think, you may get the answers to your problems or questions. Guy at work got got cheating on his girlfriend that he lives with. He had moved in with her. Another co worker female, took a liking to this guy, so they sarted going out. I always wondered why he was so quiet at work, played the strong...'Im crazy and I don't give a fuck atittude' type. It was only to impress her. Well his live in girlfriend got the mail one day and notice credit card statements for dinner, a...

First of all, its Earth Day. Hug a tree and talk to the grass. Listen to what they are saying. A female friend that I met under a year ago..she is finally not only getting honest with, but with herself too. She had every chance to meet me in person before I moved. But being like almost everyone else, she said she was always busy. This was even on mnay occasions we made plans to meet. At first I tool it personal, thought it was me. Then I thought, it couldn't be because she never met me face to face. Turns out it wasn't never about me at all. It's all her. People can click in emails, text messages and even on the phone. But when one ask, 'when can I meet you in person', the other person...well. sweat runs down their back. Some people are self consious about the way others will look at them. Letters, text, emails and phone calls distant ourselfs from meeting people face to face. True, in those form of communications, it's easy to express yourself because the per...

It happens with all of us, at some time we get that great idea. Something we think that no one has ever came up with the idea about. Some times it haunts us for years, but we never act on it. Then one day while we are watching TV, or are walking down an isle in a store... We see what we had vision...on the shelves...looking right at us...and some one comes along and not buy one, but four of them. Since I was off yesterday, so that left me some time to meet with a woman, Kim in person. A single mother of 5, not working because she was taking care of a sick parent who recently passed away. Though she was gone from the workforce for only 6 to 8 months, she told me that that was a little too long for where we live at. Her position was filled and now she has to wait to get back into the company. But in the man time, she has options that she wants to look in and do. Restate, and her own line of T-shirts, and she has shoes, dresses for women also. Some of the dresses I saw on her Facebook p...

...she has to be well organized. It's like this, I am well organized. So, if we are living together, she should be too. I know woman like to handle their own business the way they want to, but.. It irks me when they ask my opinion about certain matters, and then they continue to do it their won way that they are used to doing. Then when she can't find something, she expects me to KNOW where it is. Another thing, screen names and passwords. Okay you have a computer, Smartphone and a tablet. You sign up for things that I think are a waste of time. You set up email accounts all over the place. I know you're not suppose to use the same screen name, and passwords for all the websites that you belong to require that you have then. This is where a notebook comes in hand. Write that shit down so that it will always be there. This woman I know can't get into her expansive ass Mac desktop cause she can't remember her account screen name or password. Funny thing is she bou...

...minding my own business in her home. Her home phone is ram through her cable company, so Caller ID came on the TV. A 216 area code. I asked did she knew anyone in that area code, no. But she answered anyway. I don't know if she was showing off, but apparently the guy on the phone asked her did she own a car and did she know how o drive. Then she started laughing so hard, she started crying. Then, told the guy that she didn't drive, she flew. Apparently he made another joke cause she started laughing even harder. Total time on phone, 5 minutes. I tried to explain to her that she shouldn't answer any phone calls from any area code that she doesn't know either one, the caller, and two, she doesn't know where the area code is. But she got really upset with me, telling me that her cable company doesn't charge her for long distance calls. I told her if the call, once you answer it charges you initially $30 to answer and then $9 for every minute, your cable compan...

I just got a text, she told me that her son had got married. I said to myself, well at least he did the right thing. Has a boy and a girl by one woman, girl. And has another child that is less than a year old by some other girl. Did he marry any of those two, no!! He went and married some other girl who has 3 children already by different guys. I mean, when will this type of madness end? It's not even funny any more. He's 25 years old, no job, how will he support his wife and the kids? But I guess he isn't worried about that. I wonder what his other child's MOTHERS  have to say. I know for a fact that he wasn't doing or giving anything to them. Was talking with a female friend on the phone. And all she could say, all that was coming out of her mouth was that she wanted to marry me for my benefits. Every time she mentioned that, she would then say I was just joking. I had enough and told her something that she needed to hear.  I said... 'You're a 41 yea...

...I found the female me!! She was raised as an Army Brat. Her father was stationed with the same division I was in. Their housing was in the housing area that my Post was at. Thing is she was there many years, 6 years later. She just turned 43 years old the other day, and yes, I met her online. Turns out she is living right outside of Ft Bragg. Two children, and is involved with a soldier that is married and has been for 2 years. Thing is she knew him before he gt married and decided to continue their relationship even though he IS married. She text me the other day how she is home on her birthday with no plans and that who she wants to be with, who shares the same day as her as a birthday, was home with his wife. I told her that she wasn't getting any Birthday Nooky and it went on from there. She asked what was I doing that night, and if I was getting any, she wanted to know everything. Every thing meaning what I did to lead up to it and what I did to her. The next day I ga...