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I make up my own mind and I deal with whatever that follows. Some women aren't just right. I mean, they get what their hand calls for. I listen to everything that I'm told. Most of the times if shit don't apply to me, I pay it no mind, but I still listen. Talk this one woman I know here. I told her, that I would move into her home inder one condition. That I am a 'roommate', who if you want to, we could have sex. Told her, I find her attractive and I could see myself having sex with her. But I am not your man, and if I feel that you're treating me as such, I will speak up about it. Last week she told me her 29 year old daughter had her electricity turned off, didn't pay the bill. So, yesterday from no where, she approaches me and tells me that her electricity bill went up to $200 more than it normally is, this is because I am here. I told her that I will give her an extra $50 a week and left it at that. Straight off I felt she was lying. She must have for...

I'm a true believer that if you talk things out with others, no matter what it is, you will always find a solution. I know some people go with the...well, they just don't like putting their business out there. True, some things you want to keep to yourself. But I think that there isn't nothing on the earth that isn't too big of a problem to share with at least ONE person. Let me correct that, one breathing, alive person. You already, for some, give your worries to God. But a human being, I think, you may get the answers to your problems or questions. Guy at work got got cheating on his girlfriend that he lives with. He had moved in with her. Another co worker female, took a liking to this guy, so they sarted going out. I always wondered why he was so quiet at work, played the strong...'Im crazy and I don't give a fuck atittude' type. It was only to impress her. Well his live in girlfriend got the mail one day and notice credit card statements for dinner, a...

First of all, its Earth Day. Hug a tree and talk to the grass. Listen to what they are saying. A female friend that I met under a year ago..she is finally not only getting honest with, but with herself too. She had every chance to meet me in person before I moved. But being like almost everyone else, she said she was always busy. This was even on mnay occasions we made plans to meet. At first I tool it personal, thought it was me. Then I thought, it couldn't be because she never met me face to face. Turns out it wasn't never about me at all. It's all her. People can click in emails, text messages and even on the phone. But when one ask, 'when can I meet you in person', the other person...well. sweat runs down their back. Some people are self consious about the way others will look at them. Letters, text, emails and phone calls distant ourselfs from meeting people face to face. True, in those form of communications, it's easy to express yourself because the per...

It happens with all of us, at some time we get that great idea. Something we think that no one has ever came up with the idea about. Some times it haunts us for years, but we never act on it. Then one day while we are watching TV, or are walking down an isle in a store... We see what we had vision...on the shelves...looking right at us...and some one comes along and not buy one, but four of them. Since I was off yesterday, so that left me some time to meet with a woman, Kim in person. A single mother of 5, not working because she was taking care of a sick parent who recently passed away. Though she was gone from the workforce for only 6 to 8 months, she told me that that was a little too long for where we live at. Her position was filled and now she has to wait to get back into the company. But in the man time, she has options that she wants to look in and do. Restate, and her own line of T-shirts, and she has shoes, dresses for women also. Some of the dresses I saw on her Facebook p...

...she has to be well organized. It's like this, I am well organized. So, if we are living together, she should be too. I know woman like to handle their own business the way they want to, but.. It irks me when they ask my opinion about certain matters, and then they continue to do it their won way that they are used to doing. Then when she can't find something, she expects me to KNOW where it is. Another thing, screen names and passwords. Okay you have a computer, Smartphone and a tablet. You sign up for things that I think are a waste of time. You set up email accounts all over the place. I know you're not suppose to use the same screen name, and passwords for all the websites that you belong to require that you have then. This is where a notebook comes in hand. Write that shit down so that it will always be there. This woman I know can't get into her expansive ass Mac desktop cause she can't remember her account screen name or password. Funny thing is she bou...

...minding my own business in her home. Her home phone is ram through her cable company, so Caller ID came on the TV. A 216 area code. I asked did she knew anyone in that area code, no. But she answered anyway. I don't know if she was showing off, but apparently the guy on the phone asked her did she own a car and did she know how o drive. Then she started laughing so hard, she started crying. Then, told the guy that she didn't drive, she flew. Apparently he made another joke cause she started laughing even harder. Total time on phone, 5 minutes. I tried to explain to her that she shouldn't answer any phone calls from any area code that she doesn't know either one, the caller, and two, she doesn't know where the area code is. But she got really upset with me, telling me that her cable company doesn't charge her for long distance calls. I told her if the call, once you answer it charges you initially $30 to answer and then $9 for every minute, your cable compan...

I just got a text, she told me that her son had got married. I said to myself, well at least he did the right thing. Has a boy and a girl by one woman, girl. And has another child that is less than a year old by some other girl. Did he marry any of those two, no!! He went and married some other girl who has 3 children already by different guys. I mean, when will this type of madness end? It's not even funny any more. He's 25 years old, no job, how will he support his wife and the kids? But I guess he isn't worried about that. I wonder what his other child's MOTHERS  have to say. I know for a fact that he wasn't doing or giving anything to them. Was talking with a female friend on the phone. And all she could say, all that was coming out of her mouth was that she wanted to marry me for my benefits. Every time she mentioned that, she would then say I was just joking. I had enough and told her something that she needed to hear.  I said... 'You're a 41 yea...

...I found the female me!! She was raised as an Army Brat. Her father was stationed with the same division I was in. Their housing was in the housing area that my Post was at. Thing is she was there many years, 6 years later. She just turned 43 years old the other day, and yes, I met her online. Turns out she is living right outside of Ft Bragg. Two children, and is involved with a soldier that is married and has been for 2 years. Thing is she knew him before he gt married and decided to continue their relationship even though he IS married. She text me the other day how she is home on her birthday with no plans and that who she wants to be with, who shares the same day as her as a birthday, was home with his wife. I told her that she wasn't getting any Birthday Nooky and it went on from there. She asked what was I doing that night, and if I was getting any, she wanted to know everything. Every thing meaning what I did to lead up to it and what I did to her. The next day I ga...

So far I have been on 3 job interviews. 2 of them I was driven to. Yesterday, I decided that I would use public transportation and get to know my surrounding much better. I notice a lot of things. First thing I notice was the people. Being that I lived in The Bronx, there is a certain style of the way people dress. From the adults to the teenagers and even the little kids. One thing that I notice was that the little kids dress better than their parents. In The Bronx, it's kind of the other way around. Here the young adults and even the adults are still 'saggin'. The teenagers in The Bronx still do it too, but there is a big difference. Here, the teenagers aren't too concerned with how their underwear look, being that that's whats exposed to the public for all to see. I stood at the bus stop with this guy who underwear look as if it was dragged thru the dirt and mud: water, then left out to dry, and then he just so rightly put them back on. I aslo got a chance to...

First let me say this... Rochester, NY is NOTHING like The Bronx, NY. Buildings, stores, clothes, accents and the women. What I did notice though...it's the same where ever you go. Met this one woman within 2 hours, while unpacking. Her and her girlfriend came outside to see what the deal was. Her friend ask me straight off, how do she get a big juicy butt. I told her plenty of hitting it from the rear. I asked her how old she was and how many children she has. 36 years old and 3 kids. Told her her days of getting a butt like that are over. But her friend, the one that introduced herself to me, was different. Single 40 years old and no children. Lives in a 2 bedroom home by herself and looks drop dead gorgeous. I invited myself to her place for dinner. She told me that I wouldn't be having sex with her, so don't even try it. But later, after dinner, she did strip down to just her panties to see what she had. I didn't ask her, I swear. we exchanged numbers and she ca...