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One of my female online friends..she is just too much.. At the ripe age of 39, she figures that she is one of a kind. Though we all are as humans, but she takes it to another level. She has two things going for her..her looks and her body. But what she states and speaks to me about...its crazy, her way if thinking. ...and she too..waiting on Mr Right to just come along and give her everything that she CAN dream of. Her make FB friends are silent when she posts something that doesn't make sense. Won't call her on her BS like I do.. In a nice informative way, as I do. They praise her, worship the ground she walks on, in this case, agrees with everything she post. I'm not 'hating', its just..all she needs is a blonde wig and she is set.  She wants to be in a relationship, but get this... With 2 bi guys living  with them under the same roof. Or, a relationship where she isn't sleeping with,  involved with her, but she can sleep with any other man she chooses. But...

I got married..and in ALL reality, it still feels the same way to me if as if I was dating. But, on another level, it means I can't come and go as I please, do as I please. Let me explain. SHE asked me to marry her and I accepted. 3 months up to the wedding day, every so often, I would ask are you sure you want to do this. The reason..the man is suppose to be in charge..so to speak. But this man also knows how to communicate with his wife about the things he has planned, the moves he wants to make..the things that the both of them can, should be able to do together. See, I can understand that her being a woman that she has be so use to doing things for herself and by herself. All I asked her to do is believe in me..that's all..not hard to do.But, f she starts making plans to do things on her own without informing me, telling me..there is a problem. I'm not going for that..'I told you, you just don't remember it that I told you' BS. Nope, I remember everythin...

...okay, I've been to Ft Bragg..82nd AIRBORNE!! I made them walk because one of them was smoking a cigarette in the back of my truck. I was immediately disliked. So, how did I come from living in Rochester, NY..and then next..living in Charlotte, NC? Let's take a trip back... Last Summer, I met a woman online at one of those dating sites..Tagged. She agreed to meet me in Syracuse..where she was born and raised..we met at The Mall. She is living with her daughter in Charlotte, NC and she was up North paying a visit to her doctor. We met at The Mall, spent a couple of hours..yada, yada..hotel. Then decided we should both continue to see each other..see where it would lead us. She traveled between the North & South through the whole Summer. Asked me to marry her in November. What could I say? I mean, does a guy say no when asked by the woman? I said yes and I also said are you sure you want to do this with me. She said she wanted some one to take care of her. I told her I so...

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For real, its been a long time...and a LOT has changed. One being... I got married. And, with getting married the wife decided she has the decision on where WE are to live. Guess she made my mind up for me and...North Carolina it was. Charlotte to be exact. The trip, because it was a trip..packed my stuff into her SUV in Rochester...she drove from Syracuse where she has a home. ...then we went back to Syracuse for a couple of days before the drive to NC. Some where during the drive, she decided I should see my Aunt in The Bronx. I've been away from NYC for a little over a year, so I forgot some things..like RUSH HOUR traffic coming across the George Washington Bridge. Freaked her out when we sat there 2 football fields from the toll. Freaked her even more..the $15 toll. EVEN more, that set if small under passes after the toll into The Bronx. Not me though, I was HOME again  The drive from Syracuse to Charlotte, NC WAS suppose to be a 12 hour drive, left at 3am, arrive at 3pm. T...