"...Beside, There Are Still Some Rules"

Yes, there are still some rules to dating. The first being age limit.
So, I'm 50 yrs old, and by the rules, the youngest I can date/sleep with
a female is 32 years old. How did I come by this number, let me show
you.

Half of 50 is 25, then add 7 years, equals 32 years old. That's what I
go by..well as of lately that is. But this brings me to this 22 year
old. She carrysa herself much more maturely than her actual age. She has
all the curves in ALL the right places. Cute face, bright smile and her
atitude is like, like, I can even discribe it. BUT, she is 22 years
old.

To be honest, all I want to do is take her to bed, and continue to take
her to bed as long as she lets me. Again, but she is 22 yrs old. There
are other things too that is setting her apart from all the rest, she is
married, about to get a divorce. The flashing red lights, sirens and
bright yellow signs should be flashing, but they aren't. I should know
better, but I don't. This is also to say, I know she has no liking of
me. As a friend, but that's all.

The other day, a lady friend of mine, we were talking about the subject
of sex. Its been proven that men and women differ on this subject, and I
wanted to know what her say so was about. She said she wants a man that
can provide for her for in the future. I asked her what she was willing
to bring to the table. It was the usual, cooking, cleaning and taking
care of the home. I told her all that, a man can do by himself, you need
to bring more than that. But she didn't think there was any more.

This is how I see it. SEX, plays a big part. You have to have the same
hunger. You both have to want each other even outside of the
bedroom/house/apartment. Any problems, bills anything, that going to
make both our lives unhappy, we need to BOTH catch it while its young
and deal with it. Hide nothing, dicuss EVERYTHING. Both have to be
willing to compromise and sometimes just lay back and let the other take
control and feel comfortable with that. I told her my ideal woman would
have to be single for at leat 5 years and is able to do for herslf. But
she didn't understand this.

Some women not all, want a man to take care of them, but they still want
their independance.
--michaelchappell