Why Don't I Learn.

For me, being in a relationship is all good. But when I'm not in one,
and I'm just being a whore, fucking, when I get a chance, and, even feel
like having sex, that's all good too.

So tell me, why do guys & gals lie about being either in a relationship,
or have people that you're, lets just say are fucking. I think I know
why, allow me to break it sown. Bear with me.

Guys, guys are sluts, but the male version. If a female was to approach
a guy..wait females do this but be serious, meaning have a serious face
on. See what happens.

Aprroach a good looking guy, or any guy. Say to him, I've been checking
you out and I was wonsering if you would like to... Ok, just rap to the
guy, as if a guy was rapping to you. Lay it on him heavy and thick, but
be serious about it. Just as a guy would ask you, you as the same
questions, but put a female swing to it. Then ask the guy is he married,
seeing anyone girlfriend, and they say, 'are, or you just fucking'. See
what happens next, see the expression on his face. Watch it study it.

I said all of this cause I met a nice young lady 35 years old. We were
seeing each other everyday at the bus stop, so one day I stopped a
chatted up a storm with her. I asked, married, bf, attached, or just
fucking. She said none of that. So we exchanged phone numbers, she
calls,and I call her. We planned to meet up after Christmas and before
New Years...until this morning.

I receive a email saying..'I suggest you stop emailing my wife and
calling her. Later on, I'm gonna ask her what's going on between the two
of you'. So, what was my next move? Call her, email her and find out why
she puts herself and ME in this type of situation? He doesn't know me,
or what I look like. I'm not worried about all of that thou. If he has
any computer skills, all of that is easy to find out. But I ask myself,
why lie?

I'm more angry with myself more than with her. My rule is this... I
don't care if you have a boyfriend, or if you are married. If any of
those two, my next move is to still get with you, but the quicker the
better. But what was happening, it was going as a 'maybe we can have a
relationship' type thing. Now if you didn't have nayone, and all you
want to do is just get together to have sex, that's cool too cause we
have been seeing each other 5 days a week for like 4 months. Always, I
would stop and talk with her, alter she would call me. I would ask when
its a good time to call her, and she would tell me.

But I ask, why lie? I don't know. I would never lie about something like
this. Me, you know what I'm about from the first 5 minutes of the convo.
And, its not about sex all the time, but you will know I'm interested in
you.

We will see what happens over the next couple of days.
--michaelchappell