Realationships..They're a Motherfucker !!

I don't know..maybe its just me. Doubt it if its just me who feels this way, but... how come all the good women are in messed up realtionships. Let me rephrase that..what are they in what they 'say' are bad relationships.

Woman A, she is searching for love. I mean she shows love to the man she is in one with. She overpowers him with love. Its not love though, its great sex. See, she loves making love. Enjoys bringing pleasure to her man. Her problem is that after a while the man startsh answering her texts in one word answers, which drives her fucking crazy. She shows me the texts, and I told her that she is way too much into him and he knows this. She's off to Mexico, Mexico City to get butt implants of all things. Told her she has to start loving herself before she can start to love any one else.

Woman B..young, 19 yrs old. Has big plans for herself in life. I asked if she had a man and she says... 'yes, a real pain in the ass, gets on my nerves, a big baby.' Told her to leave him, says tried 2 times and her cried like a baby. Asked did she wants kids, no, but her man does, but and her has one from another female. That makes no sense to me. To me, its just a sex thing for now. How are you at a young age expect to have a life together, when they is another woman involved somewhat who has a child by him. He will pressure you into having one with him 'if' you really love him. She heard that line already.

Woman C. I thought she has her act really together. Been with her man for 12 years. He is in PA, cause one, his mother lives there and 2, he just found a job there. Also there, is a woman who he is messing with. He calls her and tell her that they should take a break for a while. She really loves this guy & will give him what he wants..this break. So, while she is trying to bounce back from the shock, cause they have a child together... he calls and says his mother is driving him crazy, could she send him some money for a hotel room. She does.... I have no more to say expect...

I love me. I'm not selfish, but I have to take care of me first before anyone else.