Last night, some woman click yes on me, she was interested in knowing me. Again, one of those web sites that connect people with people. I try, and I try VERY hard to respond with an open mind, but... Sometimes I ask myself what are these people thinking. True, I may not be that Prince Charming who rides a white horse. I'm that person who comfortable in the clothes that I wear, and I like to walk a lot. With that I'm saying this. WHAT THE FLYING FUCK !!
I understand that we all can't think and act the same, we are all different. But you would figure, a person with some years under their belt, lets say in their 50's, just ought to know the basic rules of living; basic rules of engagement. Like I said, she reached out to me. First off, whats with the cryptic names? That isn't your given name, well first name, what is it that you're hiding? My first question was, has she met any of her friends online in person. She answered yes, but things didn't go well. When she met the only 2 people out of the 1400 or so friends she has on her profile, all they wanted was sex. Its the internet dearie, Apparently the way that you meet people in your every day life isn't working. These websites are doing only 2 things. One, a person only wants to be friends online. Two, a quick hook up after a maybe 1 hour face to face, and then on the 2nd face to face, we can maybe rub bellies together. Oh, there might be a 3rd option too. Its they, women, are looking for a man to take care of them and the woman has little input, meaning no sex. Just buy and pay my bills for me. Keep food in my frig and I will call you when I need something.
She told me that in order for sex to happen, she has to have 'like' me for some time. What, a week, a month? But in the mean time, theres going out to dinner, the movies and any other stupid shit you may have the poor soul of a man lingering on, hoping that he can get between those legs of yours. True, there are guys out there who have plenty of money to spend on a woman, giving her anything she wants in return of nothing that she is offering. I'm not one of those men. So, I asked what she is doing for sex, she typed like it was nothing, that she has a vibrator that she keeps handy..she does herself. Right then and there I was walking and backing out of the situation. I understand that at any given time, a woman like a man has to 'rub one out' every so often. But to ONLY rely on that machine...it tells me one thing and one thing only...you're only into it to get what you want meaning a comfrtable lifestyle in which you have to do nothing, That would be okay except for one thing...
Listen, I love me some BIG women. Not the big and lazy type, but the BIG that gets up and around, that do things with her life. Not the ones who stay at home; doesn't work, and do nothing but collect a free check every time that day of the month rolls around. This woman was big, huge. I'm not knocking her on her size, but saying something about the mentality of the way she is and I don't even know her, but I know 'of' her. She went into other things, things that I piece together the puzzle. 4 kids but 4 different guys. She lives in a part of The Bronx, which is close to another part of The Bronx which is called Riverdale WHICH is REALLY THE BRONX !! No she doesn't live in Riverdale, she lives CLOSE to Riverdale. WTF, all I asked was what part of The Bronx you live in, JESUS FUCKING CHRIST !!!!
So, me being me, I backed out of the conversation which was all held entirely thru email. She told me I opened her eyes to something and that she wanted to meet me. I told her no, cause she doesn't even know where she lives at, and I can't deal with a person like that. End of email.
Sunday, January 13, 2013
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