Just Some Stuff

First of all, its Earth Day. Hug a tree and talk to the grass. Listen to what they are saying.

A female friend that I met under a year ago..she is finally not only getting honest with, but with herself too. She had every chance to meet me in person before I moved. But being like almost everyone else, she said she was always busy. This was even on mnay occasions we made plans to meet. At first I tool it personal, thought it was me. Then I thought, it couldn't be because she never met me face to face. Turns out it wasn't never about me at all. It's all her.

People can click in emails, text messages and even on the phone. But when one ask, 'when can I meet you in person', the other person...well. sweat runs down their back. Some people are self consious about the way others will look at them. Letters, text, emails and phone calls distant ourselfs from meeting people face to face. True, in those form of communications, it's easy to express yourself because the person whom you are talking to isn't right there in you face. But when it comes to asking for a face to face..something...'Im busy on that day'.

Well it turns out she wasn't and never have been busy. Shawn is 42 years old and lives by herself and she is lonely. So lonely that she thinks that marriage to a man will fix everything that is going downhill in her life. She works. This is her day. Wake up, get in her car, go to work, come home...repeat. thruought her working week, she comes in contact with maybe 7 people. By herself in her car,at work, one person whom she cares for and the back in her car to her apartment which she is the only one there. I told her, her next step is to buy a cat. Ditch the car, take public transportation. Don't go in the basement of your apartment to do you clothes, go to a laundry mat and do them. Go to places where people are. You're losibg contact with The Human Race, is what's happening.

She also told me about her sex issue. Which, I coudlnt believe. She told me what she wants and what she wants to feel. ...and love has NOTHING to do with it. Problem is, that she has been a Lone Wolf for so long, that she sort of lost the skill of making a man aware of that she is open to...well, you know. How do you lose the ability to do that? Oh. By being by yourself all the time. I spoke with her over the phone about this. From our conversation, she really have lost touch with connecting with men. Told her again, that is what happens when you ONLY look at men who fits acertain discription that YOU placed on yourself to meet.

But she isn't the only person who is like this. A lot of people are. They are so use to doing the same thing day in and day out. 'Oh, I do go out, what are you talking about?' The 'Night Out With The Girls', hell you can do that only so many times. And what, you go out to trash talk men in a GROUP!! Also, for what? Over priced watered down drinks, please.

Men, don't want to change any of the women that they are interested in. So why do women want to change the man that they are interested in LATER on as when they are in a relationship with? Explain that to me. What attracted you to me, you like, so now you want to... Not happening. Oh..'he has to have his own place, a car'. Its simple for me. All she has to have is a pulse.

Recently I spoke with a woman who said she wants to be with a real man, where are the real men at? But wait, she is in a relationship already. Does her man know she is unhappy with him, no. So she is out there looking for a new man WHILE she already has one at home. Yeah, like I'm falling for that. If you're doing it to him, you wll do it to me. Besides, you have 3 kids by different men, you don't need a man. You need a job.