Sundays..I Just Love Them

I enjoy Sunday mornings..don't know why.

I think it's because Sunday mornings are suppose to be lazy..a relaxing day to get yourself together..prepare for the coming week of whatever. What I enjoy even more than Sundays..MONDAYS!! Most people don't though. I see it like this.. Mondays are for the times to reconnect with coworkers about their weekends. Gather information about what they did, where they went. You don't even have to go anywhere. You could just stay at home and watch some good TV..read an article that cause you to think about..just things. Most people dislike Mondays for the simple reason the weekend is over. The way I see it, you only get one day for the weekend and that is Saturday..Sunday being the day to rest up. I guess that is why people dislike Mondays. That's why I enjoy working weekends and would rather have it that way. EVERYBODY is off on weekends..stores are crowed. Can't get anything done with all those people standing also in line with you.

A woman friend of mines got really upset because I got married. I had to pull it out of her over the phone on why she feels this way. Turns out that she she had plans for us to someday to be together. What I don't understand is why she did n't express this to me and I let her know about it in great detail. See..  Life is way too short. If you want something..want to try something out, give it a shot..make it KNOWN so that it CAN happen. Don't go by those old ass standards of waiting to see what HE will do. DON'T wait on HIM to pursue you like you WANT him to..that is too old fashion because look what happens. Some one, another woman comes along and makes her case known..willing to get it a shot, a try for her own happiness.

Along that line of MY thinking..I also came to a conclusion of something else. Marriage is and can be a scary thing...for me that is. Like I said, I'm just so use to taking care of myself and know what I need to do. Where the problems come along..is that my partner, my wife also feels the same way about her daily doings, coming and goings..how she handles her business. What it boils down to..it's all about money. I tried to establish some rules about money..how I deal with..how I handle my own money. But with marriage..it's not just my money anymore, it's OUR money. But..her money is just her OWN money. I'm breaking that rule in a way. Trying to explain t her how I handle things. Explain to her that the best..what cost more isn't always the best. Things break when they are expensive and exchanging them may cost just as much as what you paid for the whole item. Being without the said item..sent it away to get repaired is NOT getting your monies worth is what I say. So, what I do..is buy the said item at a lower cost where as if it breaks, we just get another one. This doesn't seem rational to a person who thinks that the best expensive item is ALWAYS the best way to go.

Another things I am working on  is dealing with gs in HER car. Why do people feel that they have to fill up a whole gas tank of a car with gas. I'm seeing that gas is VERY expensive and WILL burn a hole in your wallet. Here too..$25 a week worth of gas should get BOTH of us around and about to do what we have to do. Of course, that is coming out of my pocket and I have no problem with dealing with that. We are taking a trip to Tennessee in the coming weeks and I have the gas situation down to a science. I know just how much it will take to get us there and back and I'm stick to that formula regardless of what anyone..her will say. True, it's her car, but I do the driving while she sits in the passenger seat either sleeping or on her tablet.

On a lighter note.. In my complex where I live, we have a pool. It's connected to where the mailboxes are and it's a shortcut going thru the pool area to get to the mailboxes..which I did and do. Just happens that this woman was walking there the same time I was. She was wearing a one piece bathing suit. TTo say she is a Big Beautiful Black Woman.. Let's just say she has an ass that was and IS HUGE but to MY liking. Yes, I can deal with women of that size, size doesn't phase me know. Just happens she was walking in front of me and I was zoned out..yes looking at her butt as she walked in front of me. She went left and I went right to the mailboxes. When I returned thru the pool area, she was in the water and said excuse me, can I ask you a question. Sure, what is it? She then said..'I hope you got a good look at my ass, better that you take a picture, it last longer.' Me being me, I said, 'no, it's stored on my internal hard drive and thank you for that visual.' She then said,'you and your small self, you can't even handle a woman of my size, I would break you.' I then told her..because she started flirting first..'once you have me, you won't go back to those little boys you are dealing with. You know what Long Dicking is about, because that what I would do with you, but I can't, I'm a married man.' She told me she is a married woman also who doesn't get 'any' at home from her husband..so on and so on. I sat on a pool chair while she was in the water. We chatting, she telling me about what she wants and what she misses. How some men are intimidated by her size and don't think that she can move around in bed like your average size woman can. Also, that she too, doesn't go after what she wants. I left after 10 minutes because I knew where the convo was headed. But she did give me her email address and told me to contact her, which I did as soon as I got in back in the house.