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About 3 years ago, this woman online started talking to me. From out of the blue. I mean, she started chatting with me online, texting. Then she asked for my phone numbernumber and 8 gave it to her.

She calls at lease 5 times a month mind you for 3 years. She is from Virginia, but lives in The Bronx. I'm from The Bronx, but now live in Virginia. She Lives The Bronx, and I was tired of NYC period.

She knew well in advance that I was coming back to The Bronx for my sister's wedding. It was her, who suggested that I stopped by and say hello since we never actually met face to face. I said okay.

Then a little while ago, she told me in a text that she doesn't have a man, and she doesn't let anyone know where she lives at. I said okay. She wished me a safe trip back to VA and I said okay. Then she called me.

She wanted to know what I'm giving her one word answers, so I told her. I told her I wish you would have told me like last night when we talked what you just told me. So now I have 6 hours to...I don't know, find some place to just chill? How do you expect me to feel. I very disappointed in what you told me. And as a so call friend you say you are...well, your not a friend.

She then went on to explain how she feels. I didn't interrupt her, and when she was finished, I didn't say anything. Then she asked me what's wrong. And I told her.

Since you have every right to feel what you feel and go by your standards that you set for yourself, I also have every right to have my standards and I have feelings also. And that if the shoes was on the other foot, I would never do that to a person and certainly not to you after all these years. But that's how you feel and I can't go or say anything about how you feel and you should do or feel the same way when I said you're aren't a friend. Then I told her not to call me any more. But if you do, I will not block you, I won't listen to your voicemail if you do leave a message. Friends don't do what you just did or said to me.

Of course she don't understand why I feel this way, some people never do. They don't think that way, they think only THEIR WAY and that's it. But I not angry or mad at her, just very disappointed in her and people like her who do things like she did. And those people I keep my distance from, I stay far away. In fact, I stay so far away, that I don't even speak to them any more. They don't exist, they stop exsiting to me period.

Hope she does well in life..as the way she sees it.