I Can Hold a Decent Conversation....

...and at times, if you're a female, you would want to kill me. No for real, she would want to.

...see, cause all a female has to do is ask the man she is attracted to a couple of questions. The VERY first question should be, 'what is it that you want?' Now ladies, when you ask this question, try not to fly off the fuckin' hook when we answer, cause you did ask, right? Pay close attention to our answers. You shouldn't be judging on whether, you can 'get' what you want from this guy, or our answer, you should be seeing is it along the same vein as for what you're looking for in a man being your man. Cause face it, you're never gonna find that perfect man, he does NOT exist!!

Another issue... If the man you do have now, like he isn't doing, saying or even being the man you 'thought' he would be or can be... And, you decide to like break things off with him, does that mean that your female friends, are off limits to him? What's even stranger, I find that guys are feeling the same way about this also. If his girl breaks up with him, or the other way around, he says that she is off limits to all his guy friends too. I think that shit, both for the guy and the female is stupid, crazy and also childish.

I know this young guy, and I have to admit it, he has a HOT girlfriend. Just for the simple fact that she is 23 years old, she is so off limits to me that I don't even think...well, i do, but I try not to think about her. Whats so strange is this. She looks at me in a way like, 'oh wow. I'm only use to my man being this way, here you come along and you're opening my eyes.' Yes, she looks great from head to toe. Yes, she isn't Black. She is proud of her body cause she works out. Here is the thing. IF, they were to break up, would I say, no, I can't DO anything with you cause I do know your ex boyfriend...FUCK NO I WON'T! Because 1, she only broke up with you for the simple fact...be it whatever it may be, and you're, she probably get right back together again as a couple. Me personally, even if she was still going out with him, be it any female, who has a man, and she makes eyes like she wants to do something with me, I will pursue the issue. But I do take certain matters into consideration.

I thought it was only Black women who were only after men with money. Turns out that it doesn't matter what color the women are really. It's just now that I am seeing this because I'm associating with women who aren't Black. But some women, not all are like this. But I haven't seen any who are and that shit baffles me. Where are the women that are secure in themselves that they earn a living and there is more to life than acquiring 'things'. Looking for a man that will 'give' them things that they should otherwise be getting for themselves. The only thing that people should be searching for is having a good time, enjoying life, and meeting new people who are exciting no matter what way of life they are living. That they are where you are right now, doing things that you enjoy and living for the experience. Is that how the world is now, is that what's it all come down to? Let me see who can do for me, cause I don't want to do for myself?

So, people. Don't get upset with me because I come straight to the point. Don't get pissed off at me because I explain to you MY way of seeing and doing things. You do yours your way, and I do mine my way. And if some where along the way we do agree on something, lets take it from there and go further.