Okay... I Took a Chance Last Night

I've been waiting for the right chance and time to hit the night life here. I didn't know where I wanted to go, nor what I wanted to do. All I did know was that I wanted to be in a place where there was good music playing and good people enjoying it. I took into account of the assholes, the drunk asshole that could be present. I'm not mentioning names of these places...because, I just won't. First, I don't drink, not even sociably. I will sip a beer for like 5 hours if I have to. Only to wet my throat. I'm not on 'the hunt', being like that brings a Saturday Night Live skit to mind, so no, I'm not like that either. But I do seek woman who having a good time and are NOT drunk. First place I walked into, I was led by the hand to their table.

When I walked into this place I looked for the bar, somewhat crowded, but not too. Then I looked for the bathroom and the Fire Exits. Fire Exits, I ALWAYS seek those out, find them and lead those that are drunk to then in case of an emergency I always say. I got to the table and was offered a shot...of what, I don't know. I DO know, 30 seconds later I was wozy as all fuck. A table of 5 women, 2 weren't drinking and they started talking to me, knew right away that I wasn't from the area. How I know? I looked around on the walk to the table and I noticed I was the darkest person in the place. I wasn't put off by this at all, I enjoyed it. Not for the attention, but for that if anything did happen, I would be easily recognized, remembered. 'Well, it was The Black Guy for sure.'

One thing for sure, non drunk women here, I found out, are the ones who want to get laid, have sex. They are the ones who do the driving for their girlfriends who get so shit-faced, that they lose their mind. They are the baby sitters. Also, SHE told me so. Told me that if I hang with her as 'the babysitter', that at the end of the night we could REALLY get to know each other. But no, I was a a 'crawl', bar hopping as they call it. It was VERY early, say around 9pm and from what I could tell from outside on the streets, there were MANY bars. I stayed until 9:30 and bounced.

The next place I found was due to the lines and the way the people outside were dressed...the music blasting helped also. THIS was my place!! Trance, Electronic Dance Music, EDM...and the people 'head bobbing' in the line, I wanted in. I don't mind waiting in line, but I wanted in. Went straight to the front, sticking my hand out, with a $20 dollar bill secretly hidden, I shook his hand, it worked, he directed me in. I went straight to the dance floor. OMG!! I was there, I was home..I lost myself in the music. It was just me and the music for the next 2 hours, that was when I left the dance floor. I was all over it, from one end to the other JUST DANCING. No style, just what the music made me feel. This DJ, which I got to talk to and trade email addresses with...he KNOWS his stuff. There is an art to playing music like this and not many can do it. You have to be able to keep the dance floor full and keep the heads bobbing as he KNEW how to do. This one young lady, about 35, followed me where ever I went on the floor. I asked her name.

Not only did she give me her name, but her number too, and a ride home after we had a cup of coffee at some diner where we talked. Single, no children, says she has a nice home. I don't know if that was the 'window' for me, but I didn't want to take a chance. But we agreed to meet sometime during the week, after I call her on Sunday, meet during the week for dinner, some where quiet to talk. When she dropped me off, she said she wanted to know me for the simple fact on the way I was dancing, and that she kept seeing me all over the dance floor.

So, my first night out 'clubbing', was FUN!!