She Started It By...

....making a reference of 'used cows' and 'getting the milk for free. It was all about a man paying for the date when it's going out to dinner. I released the Kraken.

First of all a first date should NEVER be a a date where you out to eat...formal that is. But I told her that she knows nothing about going out to eat formal any old ways, more or less its fast food for you lady. It's like this, and this is how I see it.

You see her every day at the bus stop or the same place that the 2 of you are always at. Starts off with a greeting and eventually just talking about anything. You ask her does she want to go out and do something, nothing in particular, just something. I stay away from formal getting something to eat because it requires way too much 'getting ready' time. But her being her, she wants to get something to eat. She suggest it, so i will let her name the place. More likely she has been there before..which is a Red Flag. How come she can't pick some where she WANTS to try and never been to?

Here comes the hard part...not for me though. First time you're going out to eat, so who pays? The man, who has money enough to cover for the whole meal and then some, most likely will pay. The woman, she will allow him to pay also. Keep in mind, this is the first time you are going out. How I see it...I will ask her does she want m to pay for the meals. No harm in asking, right? But some women get the impression when a man ask this...that he is cheap and she doesn't want to see him any more because of asking that question. On the other hand, if a woman wants to pay for the meal, I will let her, next meal is on me...if there is a next time.

But let's not focus on the meal, it's the conversation, right? We have all be taught not to talk with our mouths full, but you have to have a conversation during the meal. Conversation during the meal, food gets cold. Me, I just eat, not too fast, but while the food is still hot. Her...she wants to show you that she has table manners and will take her time, it's okay but..your food is getting cold with you playing over it...EAT! This is why I never go out to eat formal, fast food, yes.