I rather work Saturdays and Sundays and be off two week days. In New York City...everyone parties, go shopping for food and handle their business in the weekends, which makes doing things harder because if the crowds. During the week, when I'm off and everyone is at work, I get to do my business. Wash clothes, food shopping...or just do nothing.
Met this woman online. Became friends and then she hit me with the..click here to see my... But there was and is something different about her and I can't place my finger on it. She's from Norfolk, VA...34 years old. I didn't ask her about her status because I can guess..at least one kid, no man, child's father not in their lives. Typical and basic but I understand. But something happened with us communicating. She is becoming..she wants to actually know more about me, the things I like in a woman.
..and no, she isn't 'playing' me. I know when a woman is. See, she told me straight up that she isn't sleeping with me for money. She said IF we were to meet it's because she wants to sleep with me. And no me coming to her, but her coming here to me. I ask when and she said she doesn't know yet because..well because she has to trust me.
I asked her her real name and she text me her driver's license with her address tape over. I asked is she dating/sleeping with anyone..and ahe asked me too. She said no, ans I said yes I am. This woman is asking all the right questions which makes her somewhat different.
Wants to know why do I want her if I have someo5 already. I asked her soes5 she eat the same thing everyday, she said no, and she gets what I mean.
It's sad though. A woman has a child with a guy and expects the guy to be there and do the right thing. I'm not saying it's the guys fault because it could be that she is just hard to get along with after she had the baby by him. Maybe she is too demanding and he had enough. Or, maybe the guy is an asshole and wasn't even going to be there from the beginning. Who knows.
I know one thing for sure. A man has to be strong in the mind to live in any Shelter. There are rules to be followed. I'm following them and I ask for everything. Like can I wash my clothes, can I go up to take a shower after work. I just recently asked that after my shower, can I relax and take a nap. I requested it in writing and got a yes. So yesterday I slept for 4 hour after work and my shower. I think that's why I woke up at 3:30am, not doing that again.
My best friend got kicked out of this shelter a couple of weeks ago and I'm afraid and worry of his safety out there. He texted me asking about a piece of property I was holding for him. While I was at work he came by to pick it up. Everyone asked me did I see him. Staff here told me that he looks bad, very very bad. I told them I tried to help him while he was here, it's the only reason I came to VA was to help him get right. But he didn't and still doesn't want to. Oh he will sooner or later.
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