Big Dummy

About 5 years ago I met this woman online. She was from VA, but moved to NYC. I asked her can we meet in person.

I asked can we meet in person. She lived about a 20 minute walk from where I lived at. All I had to do was just stand outside in that area and sooner or later I would have seen her. But being the 'nice' guy...when she said no, I left it at that.

Over the years she stayed in touch with me, always reaching out to me first. I mean if you don't want to meet me in person, I don't want to talk to you over the phone or even text with you. But with her I contin9 to do so for some strange reason. Every time she call or text, she would tell me about the relationships that she is in.

But these relationships weren't healthy for her because sooner or rather right at the beginning of them she would tell me how the guy was and is and what he is doing to her. I told her I don't want to her about your bad shit that's going on in your life. Why do you feel you must tell me this shit. She would agree and then do it all again over and over. Well, this time around she got herself into some shit.

She told me that she met this guy who walks past her building every day. She says he is tall and good looking and then one day he started talking to her. All that she told me was a lie. All she told me was a lie as... Every damn thing. This guy lives in her building. He is seriously in dope, heroin. He takes her stuff out of her place and sells it. She gave him her debit card, EBT card...and taken all of her money. But she is still with him for the simple fact that he eats her pussy good, her words. 

I told her a little while ago that I don't want to hear any more about this guy for the last 4 months you have been talking about him. It's like he makes you miserable, so you pass your shit in to me. Calls me at 9am to tell me some more bullshit he did to her. Like why tell me, and then you agree with me saying you're going to leave him alone. That she said she is going to write a note to him. WTF, a note?!!! But you won't learn until he starts beating the shit out of you... Or when he starts telling his friends to come and scare you into paying off a fake debt he owes them. But he will make it all right with you by going down on you.

But what you do.. Take me for example. You give me some bullshit excuse when I did travel up to NYC and I offered you $50 a night plays dinner ton stay with you until I left. She would have made $100. I wouldn't have made a move on you unless you told me to. But no, after you agreed, you changed you mind. Which you have every reason to do so but.. But the excuse you gave me showed me just how fucked you are and I am glad I didn't stay with you.

Shebtalks about how fucked up thebpeople are in her neighborhood, about the drug addicts and things. But here you are fucking with one for real. So I told her that she gets what she deserves. She has low self esteem. That she won't listen. That when he starts beating on her, talking her money and she can't or doesn't have anything to eat...

I told her I don't want to hear any more about your so called problems. You created them, you deal with them.