Easter...

I am trying to understand this whole biblical thing that relates to Easter...and its hard, even confusing. And don't tell me that I need to go to church today because I did early this morning. I took a shower at 4am and I spoke with God. ...and when He answered me, He told me all kinds of things that I should deal with today. In fact, He told me just how to go about doing them too. But I have to first see what the person I am going to meet today, see how her attitude is FIRST.

I truly believe that we as people are placed on this planet for a reason. Some of us have the same reason and some are here for all other reasons. But I am not talking about that, I'm talking of something completely different. People come into our lives for a reason also. One of my rules are that if we meet at any time in my life and we hold a decent conversation, we exchange contact information. Doesn't me we have to stay in touch, but at least 3 times a year is good. In between those times we can go about our daily living, but when you think about me, or I think about you, reaching out, is what is next.

People nowadays are so concerned about what a person can do for you, how can they make your life much easier, how can you benefit from them. I think that is bullshit. Women are always saying that a guy doesn't have this, he doesn't have that. Well what do you have, not that I am concerned about it either. We are all given the opportunity to make something of our self and sometimes it takes the help of others to give us a kick start. But if you're waiting for Ms Right or Mr Right to come along, you are just wasting your time. No one is going to treat you better than you can treat yourself. I am not looking for her, and she shouldn't be out there looking for me. Things happen for a reason, which we have NO control over.

It bothers me to hear anyone, but mostly women say that when a man has nothing, why would they want to be with them, cause if she needed finical help, she couldn't and can't go to him. I say, why would you. You got yourself into that situation, you get yourself out. Or, a man isn't a real man if he can't take care of me and my problems. Again, those are YOUR problems, your issues. Over the years, I have had plenty of conversations with women, I ask questions, I get answers. I found out a couple of things.

Some women don't want a man that can think...no, they don't want a man who can see through the BULLSHIT. BS like, a woman who depends on what her horoscope says for the day. A woman who is first to say what she has, her own home, car and money. hey that you and I am not you. Hell ALL the people in the world ARE NOT YOU, surprise. A woman who lies about her age. I know you say, what woman doesn't. But about your age? Come on that pathetic. Life is like an investment, you invest early, live your life trying to stay alive to reap in the rewards in the years that you can retire and take it easy. I said YEARS. WOMAN, are you staying around for the long run? Or, are you jsut hitting, get what you can and the run, no dash off.

People, people come into your life for a reason. Find out for real why.