Sometimes...I Just Turn The Music Off and...

...and I listen to whats around me. I listen to music MOST of the times when I am traveling, when I'm riding the subways to and from work. Who wants to hear all that noise, so I listen to music. This one time I listened to the noise and something very strange happened.

Got on the train right after work and I decided that I wasn't listening to music this afternoon. I will listen to people and hear what they are talking about. Five stops later, woman gets on, sits across from me and starts crying. Another woman sat down right next to her and asked her was she alright. She said no, and then explained what was going on with her. It turns out that she is having problems at work with coworkers. Blaming shit on her when things don't go right. When projects come in late, her coworkers make it a point to tell their Supervisor that it was her fault, which she says it isn't. But no one believes her and its driving her crazy. She feels like she is going to get fired. She even went into detail about one project which I knew nothing of, but she seems to know it and what it takes to get that job done. But no one on the team listened to her, her voice had no say so in the matter. As all the blame was put on her, thus she feels like she will be the cause of all the things that did go wrong, thus she feels her job is about to fly out the window.

I really felt sorry for her, and I believe that she wasn't the cause of all her worries. Its her coworkers, there are people in this world who are like that. I'm going to call it as I see it, they are ass kissers. They are the ones who take all the credit when things go as planned, but when there are problems, they are quick to blame others. We all have them in our work places, some hide it better than others and some are just out right with their doings. To be blamed for something that isn't your fault is the most fucked up feeling in the world. When your team blames you and there isn't anyone in your corner to blame the real person...you just want to just lay down and die. But what most of us do is..we, starting pointing out who really is the blame. All you have to do is look into the eyes of the ones that are blaming you, Not all feel its your fault, but they will side with the most and the strongest of the team. That strong team member..what they say, goes and if you're the blame, there is nothing you can do cause the whole team will side with that person.

This is happening quite a bit in the work place now and it will get even worst. That quiet person that the office always talks about being strange.. That quiet person that everyone blames shit on...That quiet person who gets all the extra work dumped on them on a Friday when in fact the whole team could help out and get it done in minutes... THEY WILL SNAP or... They will continue to do what they are told because a decent good job is still very hard to come by and they don't want to be a problem, and they want to feel like they are part of the team and... Like I said, its happening all over the place now.

I dislike when there is a person like that in any work place. They feel they are superior to all those they work with or for. The Supervisor see and knows of this person, but they won't do anything to change it because that person is keeping most of the workload away from them. This distaste I have for a person like this is worst than stepping in dog shit. With dog shit, you can just clean your shoes off, but with a person like this..there is no cleaning up. In fact, you should just throw those shoes away. Oh, I will and I haved spoke up when I see a person like this. I let them know I see what you are doing if not to me, but to others. And you know what...you day will come. So called fighting your way to the top when in fact there is NO top. Stepping on others to get what you want, when in fact, no one that matters really care, they don't know who you really are, you mean nothing to them..those at the top.

But everyone is shocked and amazed when weeks, months and even years go by and then that person snaps. Then they all say...either good things or bad things. Come question me with your pads and pens, your digital recorders and you GoPro's 2, I will tell you the truth AND I will name names..ALL OF YOU !