Some Times You Have To Feel The Situation Out.

So, this woman, who is my age want s to get to know me better. And she figures, what better place than going to church, which she does every Sunday. I told her, that that isn't the best place because you will find out just how the people in your churchh really are. I know this from past times when a 'date' was church on Sunday.

Being that this was the first time I was going to her church, I told her that I would meet her there and that she can approach me after the service. But, keep an eye and an ear open to what you hear and see. I was approached by quite a few people before the service started. The basic, my name and what I do for a living. Then it got really weird. Some people approached me and told me that they have seen me somewhere before, but can't place where. I told them that if over the years you ate in a resturant down in Manhattan, rode the 5 train, or even rode the Bronx 28 or 38 bus and even Westchester Conty's 60 bus...you probably have seen me.

7 females said that to any of those places I mentioned that they have and have been to. Then it got even weirder. Some of them gave me their phone numbers and email adresses. Of course it was along the line of if I wanted more knowledge of study from the Bible. After the service, my lady friend approached me outside the church.

She was shocked and amazed by all the women that came up to me and wanted to know what we were talking about. Nothing really, but they were setting me up for 'away' from the church. Then she started telling me the dirt on the ones that approached me. Here I thought she was a God fearing woman and that type of 'stuff', God frowns down upon a person if they choosed to do things like that. Told her that shit like that goes on all the time in the church, you just have to be open to it and see it when it happens. Most, pay no attention because they are in the hous of The Lord.

She claims she isn't like that, but then again, here she was talking crap about people. I told her that God comes to people in all types of ways. That she sees God different from the way everyone else does. All people are like this. That people go to church for all different kinds of reasons. Some go cause they have. No other place to go or be. That they feel relaxed and comfortable there. Then there are thouse that go for a totally different reason...to meet people, to hook up with people. She didn't believe me.

See, we went back to her place and I could tell by her moves and her speak, that she had other plans with me, but she held back. I told her at her door, that she should've went with what she had planned with me. That it was her just being herself and that now she is phony in my eyes from here on out. She asked me to give her a 2nd chance. Told her to call or text me when she feels ready.

All men want really from women is that theybe theirselves. Some have a hard ass time doing this. Is it maybe from their past that they were hurt? Or, could it be that they don't want men to know the 'real' them. Sooner or later the real you comes out. Why lie to yourself? The only person you're fooling is yourself. I'm me 24 hours a day, even when I am sleeping. But those hours when I am not sleeping are my best.