I know what I want, and what I get and what I'm looking for are totally all different. It takes a smart person..no a person with a brain to realize this. I take what I get..for now until....
...I see other wise. Sorry if I harp on the dating scene a lot. What else do I have to talk about. Right now I'm on my way to meet this woman for the first time. Thru emails and one phone call which I made, after she told me to call her, I got to hear her voice. She gave me her number a week ago, but I told her I would only text her, call her if she tells me to. She did tell me.
background noise. That noise you hear when you're on the phone for the first time...should be quiet. Or, some music playing. In her background it sounded like chaos, but all it was was a TV playing...LOUD. In mine, quietness, until the land line rang. I had to go downstairs and meet some one dropping something off.
Initial conversations are tricky, you have to give a person, well both aprties equal talking time. Another thing is, you have to compromise on the conversation, topics. Already she told me she is a jealous woman, her ex's she has nothing to do with; in which I ask why? Standard answer, cause they are ex's. No, I think its more than that.
All along she put emphasis on that we are only friends, she said that way too many times, its okay. I told her when she meets me, she is either gonna want me, or just stay as friends. Again, I heard we are only friends bit. I know why she is saying this, she got burned by some one she met online.
He took so much advantage of her, it isn't even worth mentioning. Guys will do that if you allow them to. Guys will do that if you smother them with the love that you are so much seeking. She told me he paid so much attention to her, but he played her. One by not having a job, which he fed off her kindness and 2, but knowing that she went without love for so long, that when he came along and showed her attention, she got opened up. Now, she can't say 'only friends' enough. Now she is so guarded, that it will take at least a year for her feels to return. But until then she will be on her toes.
...I see other wise. Sorry if I harp on the dating scene a lot. What else do I have to talk about. Right now I'm on my way to meet this woman for the first time. Thru emails and one phone call which I made, after she told me to call her, I got to hear her voice. She gave me her number a week ago, but I told her I would only text her, call her if she tells me to. She did tell me.
background noise. That noise you hear when you're on the phone for the first time...should be quiet. Or, some music playing. In her background it sounded like chaos, but all it was was a TV playing...LOUD. In mine, quietness, until the land line rang. I had to go downstairs and meet some one dropping something off.
Initial conversations are tricky, you have to give a person, well both aprties equal talking time. Another thing is, you have to compromise on the conversation, topics. Already she told me she is a jealous woman, her ex's she has nothing to do with; in which I ask why? Standard answer, cause they are ex's. No, I think its more than that.
All along she put emphasis on that we are only friends, she said that way too many times, its okay. I told her when she meets me, she is either gonna want me, or just stay as friends. Again, I heard we are only friends bit. I know why she is saying this, she got burned by some one she met online.
He took so much advantage of her, it isn't even worth mentioning. Guys will do that if you allow them to. Guys will do that if you smother them with the love that you are so much seeking. She told me he paid so much attention to her, but he played her. One by not having a job, which he fed off her kindness and 2, but knowing that she went without love for so long, that when he came along and showed her attention, she got opened up. Now, she can't say 'only friends' enough. Now she is so guarded, that it will take at least a year for her feels to return. But until then she will be on her toes.
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