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I started a post..wonder where it went, anyhow.

How can I put this.. What people do and are use to doing here in this city and great state..I would never do in NYC. I try not to compare but I can't help it. Like...

Like I made a statement that I would never date a woman with children, infant, toddler, teen, tough adult..nope, I will never do that and I have my reason. Dude said as long as you don't put your hands in my mother we are good. I tried as hard as I could to grasp that statement, couldn't. But I told him..why would you as a 28 year old man get involved in your mother's relationship. That's her doing and she knows how to handle situations better than you and it doesn't involved violence. Besides, your mother will tell you anything to make the guy look bad, i.e, he hit me...which most likely he didn't.But you will believe your mother and step to the guy too. AND, what will for sure happen...the two of them will be back together again.

Correction..I would never had a women with children as my girlfriend. Still means no relationship for me but..does not mean I won't sleep with her. Okay, I will have sex with her but it comes with a disclaimer first, something like this..

"Are you sure you want to do this and what will this mean to you.' Afterwards... 'So, where do we go from here, what do we do now?' I'll leave it all up to her, she makes the decision.